#3

Holding a grudge isn't fun. You have to constantly remind yourself about the person you're holding the grudge against and how shit that person made you feel. You'll also end up talking shit about the person you're holding the grudge against 24/7 and that can get old really fast. Talking shit about the same person gets boring. and boring is tiring. Don't do it lol. Go listen to some good music and just distance yourself from being a boring person!! not worth stressing over how someone made u felt, a better approach is always understanding sometimes ppl need to be mean because the world is mean you know? I mean, you can be mean also sometimes kan? I can, no lie there. So just don't take it too harshly la, they wanna be mean fine. Go ahead! 

The word sorry tho. Since sometimes people actually realize that they were mean. FORGIVENESS IS SO IMPORTANT. when someone says sorry to you do not shut that person out. Yeah, sure you don't have to forget if the experience was REALLY REALLY BAD ( like if they killed your cat or something ), but if they're actually trying to make an effort to be nice again.... Wouldn't you want a second chance? If you think you deserve a second chance then what's so different about the person who's asking for forgiveness??? Amiriteeee? Haha maybe I am, maybe I'm not. 

Still on the forgiveness topic, it's so important for YOU to say sorry if YOU realize what YOUVE done wrong. WHAT THE HECK IS PRIDE?!? Throw that away, buckle up and go say sorry! Seriously, saying sorry & clearing up the air will LIBERATE YOUUUUU! Saying sorry matters, even though it's just a small word and some people say it's a useless one. It's important not only for the people you've wronged but for you as well. This is a reminder for myself as well, because I either overuse the word sorry or feel like I don't owe anyone an apology. It doesn't work like that. Pride and ego will tie you down. If you tie yourself down then how will you make full use of this life?????